Be Good To Yourself

 “It is only when we feel deprived that we resent giving to others. Self-care does not mean you stop caring about others; it just means you start caring more about you. Start thinking about yourself more and others less. Since you have a choice between taking care of someone else, or giving to yourself, try choosing yourself sometimes.” The Right to Innocence by Beverly Engel 
The Holidays are especially difficult for many of us, Survivors. Again, I'm estranged from my family .. by my choice. I'm learning to be true to self and do what makes me happy. Still an ongoing project.
What I mean to say is .. Don't be so hard on yourself. When we do what is needed for ourselves, we are then more able to lovingly give to others. WOW .. I said that?!

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